Quite a few years back, I learned how to write atomic essays—short, structured reflections meant to distill a single idea with clarity and intention. At the time, it was exactly what I needed. I was just beginning to share my voice publicly again, and the format gave me something to hold onto: a sense of completion, a defined shape for undefined thoughts. It made writing feel less like a performance and more like a practice.
But the things that guide us at the beginning don’t always stay with us forever. We evolve. Our voice evolved. Our questions change. And eventually, the very forms that once gave us confidence begin to feel like constraints. To keep growing, we have to let go of what once worked.
🙅🏾 What No Longer Fits, Teaches Us What We Need
Gradually, when I started writing pieces I couldn’t easily categorize. When I found myself asking whether something was an atomic essay, or a reflection, or something else entirely. That confusion gave me a light bulb moment.
What I’d been writing eventually weren’t essays, they were Ethereal Epiphanies: open-ended, lightly structured, emotionally honest pieces that carry more than one idea at once.
For a while, I thought I needed a set process: start with an epiphany, turn it into a polished atomic essay, and maybe expand it into something longer. But I realized not every idea fits that mold. Some thoughts are meant to stand on their own. Others don’t need to be reworked or stretched into something bigger. And trying to force every idea into the same structure was slowing me down—not helping me grow.
Letting go of that process isn’t about losing structure—it’s about choosing one that actually supports how I think and write at this stage of my life and writing journey.
🌳 A Home With Structure, Not Constraints
Over time, I started noticing that my site wasn’t structured in a way that reflected how I actually write. There was no real separation between fleeting thoughts, long-form essays, or recurring themes. Everything was just floating—unlabeled, ungrouped, hard to return to.
This isn’t just about design. It’s about making space for how my mind works now.
Ethereal Epiphanies have become my main writing form. They’re no longer a warm-up to something bigger—they are the piece. And instead of trying to force everything into one linear process, I’m building a structure that can hold different types of writing with intention.
Right now, I’m thinking in three main realms: writing, tech, and life. I’m still figuring out how I want to organize each one—whether they become columns or categories. This restructure is about clarity. And clarity begins with honoring what belongs where.
🌸 Becoming My Own Style
For years I described my voice as somewhere between Daniel Goleman and Malcolm Gladwell—two writings I deeply studied. But I no longer want to be somewhere in between. I want to be exactly where I am.
I want to say that my writing sounds like Naya Moss.Because it does. And it always has. I just needed time—and a few outdated forms—to realize it.
So this isn’t just a restructure. It’s a quiet declaration:That my voice is worthy of its own architecture.That clarity requires evolution.
That writing, like living, is an act of becoming.