November 2024
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Redefining Self-Respect on My Own Terms
I used to define self-respect all wrong. I thought it was about outer appearance and treating others the way you want to be treated. But that view doesn’t make sense at all. Through painful experiences and deep reflection, I’ve learned that having self-respect means caring for yourself first – treating yourself with utmost love, care,…
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🌍 15 Global Philosophies and Frameworks I Live By
Ever wonder how different cultures approach life’s biggest challenges? Throughout my travels and studies, I’ve discovered that ancient wisdom often holds the key to modern living. These fifteen philosophies and frameworks from around the world have transformed how I navigate life’s complexities. African Wisdom 🇰🇪 HarambeeHarambee is a Kenyan principle centered on collective effort and…
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🧘🏾 Embracing Evolving Minimalism and Mental Clarity
Ever notice how clearing your physical space somehow clears your mind too? I’ve discovered that each phase of letting go in my minimalist journey corresponds directly with moments of mental breakthrough and healing. Earlier this year in Chicago, I finally confronted the dresses I’d bought in Europe – the same ones I wore during the…
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Building a Better Future Through the Bakery Grind
Working at the bakery is a whole different kind of exhausting. It’s not just my feet that ache by the end of the day—it’s like every part of me feels the impact of standing and physical work. After years in IT and InfoSec, nearly seven years working from my bed, a chair, a cafe, etc……
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🍞 Using AI to Boost Efficiency at the Bakery
🌅 From Racing the Clock to Reclaiming My Time Every morning felt like a race. No matter how fast I worked, I barely had time to keep up with the demands at the bakery. Have you ever felt like there aren’t enough hours in the day? That’s where I was—constantly stretched thin, especially with my…
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🫶🏾Learning When to Save My Kindness, Love, & Care for Those Who Value It
I’ve had a profound realization lately about the way I give of myself to others. Having a kind and peaceful heart in an often unkind world can be both a blessing and a challenge. I’ve always believed in treating others with the same kindness and respect I hope to receive. It’s not about pleasing others…
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🗂️ Essential Organization Systems for IT Professionals: A Practical Guide
“Hey, where’s the latest version of the security audit?” “Which folder has the API documentation?” “Did anyone save the backup of that configuration file?” Sound familiar? I’ve been there too. After a particularly stressful incident where our team spent three hours looking for a critical configuration file (which turned out to be named ‘final_FINAL_v2_actually_final.conf’), I…
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Ultra-Processed Foods Are Destroying Our Mental Health
Have you ever noticed how your mind feels after a week of microwave meals versus homemade dishes? I’ve experienced both sides, and the mental toll of relying on ultra-processed foods is far greater than we often realize. Over the past nine years—and especially during my time in Europe, I completely changed how I ate, and…
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💜 Building Resilient Communities During Unprecedented Times
As political divides widen and societal structures buckle under unprecedented pressures, a deep truth emerges: our survival and well-being increasingly hinge on the strength of our local communities and villages. The systems we once unquestioningly relied on are showing their limitations, struggling to fully address today’s complex challenges. It’s becoming clear that the solution isn’t…
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💜 Why We Need Emotional and Practical Support When Life Gets Tough
Ever feel like life’s challenges are simply too big to handle alone? I’ve been there, feeling like the weight of the world is on my shoulders. But I’ve also learned that leaning on others can be the difference between sinking and swimming. When life gets rough, having a support network isn’t just comforting—it’s essential. 💪…
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😡 Can Negative Thoughts Hijack Your Focus? New Research Shows How Rumination Affects Attention
Ever wondered why deep work feels impossible when you’re caught in a cycle of negative thoughts? Whether you’re preparing for a crucial presentation or tackling an important project, rumination can derail even our most focused efforts.